Monday, May 4, 2009

MANNYCURE

No, I'm not talking about a manicure or about the Dodgers home-run hitter, Manny Ramirez...

Girls, Men can not solve your problems and they can not cure a broken heart, a deficient self-esteem, or insufficient self-value, and "be" your happiness. I know most women may think they do not feel or believe that they themselves need a man...or they may change the word "need" to "want" in order to feel better about their "need" and often futile search for Mr. Right. But a loving relationship begins with a loving relationship with yourself first. In the end, marriage is not a goal or a destination. It's the product of a loving and romantic relationship. It's the result of two people committing to each other and their new creation called "US." Both men and women bring their unique gender perspective and talents that together will sustain a successful union. The paradox however is that both men and women "need" each other. It takes two to support the relationship, to create it, to nurture it, to sustain it's life... after all just like a flower, plant, or human, it is a living organism that continues to grow and bear for you the wonderful fruit of life and love.

My whole life women have been my support, love, and source of happiness. I was raised by five quirky and loving sisters and a nurturing mother. Women are also a source of drama and chaos. But I wouldn't have it any other way… Well maybe with less drama and chaos.

5 comments:

  1. So although a man cannot "solve your problems, cure a broken heart, give you self-esteem, or BE your happiness"... 5 nurturing sisters and a loving mother can.
    :)

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  2. It takes the right woman to pair up as a life partner. These six woman showed me all that a woman can be and more. That's why I believe woman are truly independent, so men take care of them. There is however ways of finding that perfect man that you can shower with your endless love... and it's starts with you. Blessings...

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  3. all of it is sooo totally true it all sounds fimiliar to me. great job!

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  4. I had a convo w/ a friend the other day and she was like I DON'T TRUST MEN. She was burned real bad by her man, so now all potential guys are on the shit list? Why can't they just be cool and follow the code of conduct? That way we wouldn't have this can't live w them can't live w out them neediness.

    ~Lizette

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