WHEN DO GIRLS GROW UP?!

When do girls grow up? Yes, we hear that females mature faster than men, but I really question this social belief.  More specifically when do women realize that “bad guys” are really bad for them and don’t provide anything? (P.s. please excuse the grammar and spelling errors, i had to just get this out)

A woman tonight (Young), was being approached by my friend, who by the way was pouring it on.  Walks on the beach stuff. Suddenly, I ask her a question about her and her friends, trying to figure out who's who. She started to talk to me for a minute before my very well educated and cool friend continued his play.  Perhaps giving romantic one-liners he really believes.  At some point (don't ask me when, I can't remember), she shifts towards me and asks me. “Your friend told me what he could offer me, what can you?”  I looked in her eyes and said, “Nothing, I don’t know you” She then grabbed my face and kissed me (yes I’m a germa-phobe, so you can imagine how I tried to pull back). She explained to our group that she was attracted to me, and if it came down to my friend, or me it would be me. Why? Because I didn't show interest?  Cause I was just cool, sitting there?  She did tell me that she was attracted to me for some reason. 

But in the end of the day, the guy showing interest is wasting his time?  Because the "cool" guy sitting next to them is creating mystery, mystic, because he’s not participating?  I was just being respectful and letting my friend do his thing.  This is fucking silly to me. So when do girls really grow up and realize that good men are not only hard to find, you just need to realize that you want them.
Me not being interested in her should not be mistaken for sexy or mysterious.  Ugh!Really? I just had to much shit on my mind. I was not playing games and not even attracted to her.  Come on! So when do when realize they need to entertain men/guys that are interested in them and would probably treat them better than some like me who at the moment, wasn’t really mentally present. NOT cause I didn’t want her, or playing some game, but I was just thinking about the show edit I have to do on Monday! That’s not cool, or mysterious.  Really? Ugh!

BE THE WOMAN

Be the woman you want your daughter to be. Be the woman you want your son to date. Be classy, anything but trashy. (compliments of So Damn True @sayingsforgirls)

Changing A Man: “A moment in the life excerpt.”

“Yes, you may think I’m in the circle of the “Other” guy, the guy you can’t marry. I completely understand that because I put myself there. I’m good at it. I’ve been there my whole life. But now, I’m at the edge of that circle working my out...and that’s because of you. You’re the first woman that has inspired me to get out of that circle. To face some fears. To be not the other guy, but rather a better man. Your man. And I know, through my own doing and other forces of insecurities, I’ve created that circle, afraid to end the movie and start a life with the one I love. I know that when I do break out of that circle there’s a great chance that you would already be married and if so, that’s my fault. But I’m working hard to break through, for you...”

Love: Resentment or Cheese?

I saw a young couple at Ralphs. It’s freaking hilarious and sad to watch couples shop for groceries. Have you ever? I can tell how long they’ve been together and what’s going on in their relationship just by how they decide which cheese to buy. They are so rude and disrespectful to one another, aren’t they? They bicker and make a federal case out of anything, even something so simple as cheese. It’s just cheese people. The difference between cheddar and jack does not require a hostile exchange of desperate one-upping and sarcastic one-liners, disrespectful criticism that have nothing to do with dairy. But I get it. It’s not about the cheese is it? It’s about what he or she did two months ago that was completely offensive and never resolved. If only they had the skills to communicate and resolve those issues, they would realize that resentment is not cheddar cheese.

WOMEN WORK FAST

Overheard young lady tell her friend the bartender "Hi I'm meeting my date here" Bartender: " Wait where's your boyfriend?"
Young lady: "We just broke up"
Wow she works fast...

BREAST IMPLANTS

For those Ladies who have them...thank Dr. Vincenz Czerny for doing the first breast implant in 1895... This is your man!

TEXT THIS PEOPLE!

Psychologists and scientists say that human communication is 90% body language, facial expressions, and non-verbal ques.  7% is actual words.  Just think how much you're missing and not saying if you choose to communicate via text.